Why Dating Apps Don’t Work in Utah (And What to Do Instead)

Dating apps promised us a way to meet people anytime, anywhere. But for many Utah singles, especially those who are thoughtful, creative, or just tired of the swiping game, dating apps feel more like a black hole of ghosting, surface-level chats, and endless disappointment.

So what’s the alternative when you’re single in Utah and actually want to meet people in real life—without awkward setups or small talk with strangers?

At The Clay Hole in Draper, Utah, we’ve created a different kind of space. Every Friday night, our Singles-Only Pottery Night welcomes adults who are over the apps and ready for something real. No flirting pressure. No games. Just creativity, connection, and a weekly chance to meet like-minded people face to face.

Why Dating Apps Fail in Utah

  • They promote endless choice instead of actual connection
  • They attract people who often aren’t emotionally available
  • You rarely meet people more than once—making bonding nearly impossible
  • They’re built around algorithms, not shared values or real interactions

According to a 2023 report by Pew Research, most dating app users in the U.S. report negative experiences, with ghosting and shallow conversations topping the list.

Why Pottery Nights Work Instead

We don’t believe in one-off meetups that go nowhere. That’s why every class at The Clay Hole is weekly and membership-based, so you see the same faces, form deeper friendships, and get to know people gradually.

  • Real, human connection through shared creative time
  • No pressure to flirt—just be yourself and meet others doing the same
  • Regular attendance helps relationships (and skills!) grow
  • Our Friday Singles Night is just for single people—so you're in good company

What You Can Expect at The Clay Hole

  • Over 500 commercial glazes, 100+ underglazes, and thousands of pottery tools
  • Four instructors in every class (2 wheel, 2 hand-building)
  • Spacious, nearly 10,000 sq. ft. studio with cozy sitting areas and snack stations
  • Access to drinks, coffee, hot cocoa, and tons of snacks
  • Owned and operated by potter Dan Pearce, who attends every class
  • Location: 12896 S Pony Express Rd, Suite 100, Draper, UT

Whether you're looking to date, make new friends, or just get out of the house on a Friday night, our pottery classes are a warm, welcoming place for single adults who want more than just another swipe.

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Want to Learn More?

We answer all your questions in our FAQs, including what to bring, how classes work, and who’s welcome (spoiler: everyone respectful is).

FAQs

Is this a dating event?
Not exactly. It’s just a night where single adults can come to class knowing they’re surrounded by other singles. No pressure, no flirting required.

What if I’ve never done pottery?
Totally fine! Most people here are beginners, and our instructors walk you through every step.

Do I have to come every week?
Yes. Our classes are membership-based, and weekly attendance is key to building relationships and skills.

Find Us in Draper, Utah