Struggling to Set Boundaries? Pottery in Utah Can Help

If you've ever found yourself saying "yes" when you really wanted to say "no," you're not alone. Setting boundaries can feel impossible—especially if you're a people-pleaser, have a history of trauma, or were raised in environments where saying "no" was considered selfish. But what if there were a place where you could practice holding space for yourself, quietly, creatively, and confidently?

At The Clay Hole in Draper, Utah, we've seen something incredible happen: adults who struggle with boundaries start to reclaim them through clay. Pottery might not seem like an obvious solution, but it teaches you how to own your space, make confident choices, and express yourself without needing permission.

Why Pottery Helps with Boundaries

• Every pot is yours. You choose what to make, how to make it, and when it's done. No one can override your decisions.
• It’s okay to mess up. Pottery is forgiving, which means you can learn without shame—an important part of healing boundary trauma.
• You learn to say "no" to distractions. Focusing deeply on your work is a small act of personal power.
• Creative expression reinforces identity. The more you create, the more you trust your voice and instincts.

Our studio offers weekly classes through monthly memberships—not one-off events. That means you're not just dabbling; you're building real creative habits, boundaries, and friendships over time.

Real Support, Real Community

“For the first time in my life, I felt like I was allowed to just take up space. Nobody needed anything from me. I could just… be.” — Clay Hole Member

We welcome people who have felt walked over, emotionally drained, or invisible. Whether you're recovering from religious rigidity, toxic relationships, or just years of people-pleasing, this is a place to be seen and respected. There are no contracts, no pressure, and no expectations other than respect for others and yourself.

Owner Dan Pearce—a potter with nearly 3 million followers—personally hosts every class. The studio is stocked with thousands of tools, over 500 glazes, and a support team of 4 instructors each night.

Helpful Resources on Boundaries

• Psychology Today: Understanding Boundaries
• Healthline: How to Set Healthy Boundaries

Visit Us in Draper, Utah

We're located right off the freeway between Salt Lake and Utah Valley:

The Clay Hole
12896 S Pony Express Rd, Suite 100
Draper, UT 84020

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Conclusion

You deserve to take up space. You deserve to say “no.” And you deserve a creative outlet that honors your boundaries and encourages personal growth. If you're ready to build strength from the inside out, pottery might be the most unexpected and rewarding step you can take.

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