How to Make Friends in Utah Without Feeling Like You’re Dating

Somewhere along the way, making new friends as an adult started feeling… weird. Like dating. You dress up. You try to be charming. You wonder if they liked you. And then you never see them again. It's exhausting—and not how friendship was ever meant to work.

At The Clay Hole in Draper, Utah, we do things differently. Our weekly pottery classes are consistent, relaxed, and creative. You’ll see the same people each week, and the pressure to impress disappears. No dates. No swiping. Just human connection through clay.

Friendship Shouldn’t Feel Like a Job Interview

The magic of pottery is that it gives you something to focus on—so socializing feels organic. No forced conversation. No awkward follow-ups. And unlike a coffee meetup, you’re not just there to “get to know someone.” You’re creating side by side. That’s where real friendship begins.

  • No pressure to perform—just show up and make something
  • Consistent weekly classes help friendships grow naturally
  • You don’t have to be “on”—you just have to be present

What You’ll Find at The Clay Hole

  • Weekly adult pottery classes (no one-off mixers or “events”)
  • A massive 10,000 sq. ft. studio with snacks, lounges, and good conversation
  • Friday night is singles-only, but all nights are low-pressure and social
  • 500+ glazes, 100+ underglazes, and tools for every type of pottery
  • Four instructors per session—including Dan Pearce, who’s at every class

Making friends shouldn’t feel like dating. It should feel like showing up to a place where people know your name, ask how your bowl turned out, and smile because they’re genuinely glad you’re there.

FAQs for People Tired of the Dating Scene

FAQs

Do people date here?
Some people have met partners at The Clay Hole—but it’s never the focus. Our classes are about friendship, creativity, and community first.

I just want friends. Is this the right place?
Absolutely. That’s the heart of what we do. Many of our members come here for connection and stay because they found it.

Is clay included?
No—clay and firings are purchased separately. All tools, glazes, and instruction are included with membership.

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Conclusion

You don’t need a dating app to make friends. You need repetition, presence, and a space where connection can unfold. That’s what we’ve built at The Clay Hole—and we’d love to have you join us.

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